ConCeiving A Baby..

We are five girls in our group and the rest are all guys. They are my college friends and until now we still have communication with each other. We make it a point to see each other when someone has a birthday but lately we seldom go out because majority of us have their own family now including me. We just emailed each other every now and then and ask what's new with our lives.

Four of us girls already got married and the two have their kids who are now in grade school. My best friend and I are still childless. We are not in a hurry and we don't ask God why. Because we know in God's Time, He will give it to us. I'm just irritated to some people who are always asking "You still don't have a baby?, Who has a problem, you or your husband?". I mean, hello who are you to ask me that kind of question. You're not God to tell that. The fact that were not also close friend to say that. Who don't want to have a baby anyway. I'm just telling them Hollywood stars who are in their 40's are just getting pregnant so no need to hurry and nothing is impossible now when it comes to having a baby. I'm just joking when I tell that because we don't really know what's good for us.

Me and my husband are being monitored by our doctor every month and we are taking medicines to help us conceive a baby. It helps in a way but for me, prayers is still the most powerful weapon. Taking medicines and going to the doctor is very expensive. But we are not counting how much money we have loss because we know that when our right time comes to have a baby, all the worries and negative things we have will all be erased.

I have this friend who will have the IVF (In Vitro Fertilization) procedure in the states. He said that it will cost around 14,000 - 15, 000 dollars. Whoah, that's very expensive, it's approximately P630,000. He told me that his insurance covered the IVF procedure and he will just pay the 10% of the total amount. Lucky guy indeed.

He asks for our prayers and hopefully the procedure will be successful so we can have an inspiration. So to my friend Ted and his wife, Hazel "Goodluck to you guys and hope the procedure in August will be a success. Just hold on to God and leave all things that doubt us to Him.